6 to 9 Months Before Your Wedding
- Determine the available budget and how expenses will be shared - treat this sensitively, financial matters are notoriously the No1 cause of stress when planning a wedding
- Think about the size and style of wedding you want - formal or informal;
- Big or small - and the time of year you want your wedding to take place
- Choose a wedding planner / wedding co-ordinator (if required)
- Consolidate all guests lists: bride's, groom's, bride's family, groom's family and organize as follows:
- those who must be invited
- those who should be invited
- those who would be nice to invite… and organize addresses
- decide if you want to include children among guests
- Select and reserve the wedding venue - availability of your desired venue will often dictate your wedding date
- Select and reserve ceremony location
- Visit your minister, priest, rabbi or registrar to discuss the ceremony and reserve the date
- Decide on your retinue - best man, bridesmaid/s, maid of honour, flower girl/s, ring bearer/s master of ceremonies and ushers
- Send out an e-mail or save-the-date cards to your guests announcing the wedding and requesting that they set that date aside in their diaries
- Determine your colour scheme and general theme of the wedding and start planning wedding attire for bride, groom and all attendants - will outfits be hired or purchased and who pays for what?
- Start discussing your honeymoon and make sure passports are up to date
- Spply for passports, visas or birth certificates, if needed for your honeymoon or marriage license
- Select and book your wedding photographer
- Select and book videographer if desired
- Select and book caterer if needed
- Select and book ceremony and/or reception musicians and/or DJs
- Select and book florist or décor specialist
- Reserve wedding night accommodation
- Start a wedding file to include all quotes, payments, contracts, guest
- Lists, honeymoon arrangements & note all important activities: showers, luncheons, parties, etc
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